One of the stronger pains that a human being can pass on his love life, is the pain of not being loved. This pain can remain for years, even after the relationship has ended. Just cling to that unrequited love, can delay us and bind us in the search for a new opportunity to love and be loved. In this article, I want to explain to you as you can with four simple steps to overcome your own pain and move towards the search for true love, that will fill you heart with joy again! First: Defined in your heart which is the true love for it reflects in your heart what is true love for you, for example true love for me, is the one that flows, which laughing most of the time, couples who are real when they are together or are separated, the person who allows us to bring out our best. For others, true love, is love who work together for a purpose, those that are in addition to a family, a relationship based in a commitment to both be mutually supportive in every way. Close your eyes and remember earlier relationships where you were happy, and first begins in your mind to remember because those love affairs were good, no matter by what are complete, nor tell thou goest out to find that person, not!. Just remember the because, the reasons for which that love was important and you full of happiness. Then take a paper and write down those thoughts. Second: recalls how was you in that relationship of happiness! It doesn’t matter if that relationship was 5, 10 or 20 years ago, remember how was you, how conectabas you and you compenetrabas with that person. Here what matters is not the age than your you had at that time, you’ve obviously changed, but remains the essence of you, no matter how old you are.